How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do individuals with borderline personality disorder have awareness of their actions or do they believe their behavior is normal?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Have your parents ever walked in on you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What timeless pieces do you believe every wardrobe should possess?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What do women talk about mostly(among themselves)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can you share a picture of your favorite outfit and explain why you love it?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Procrastinates a lot.

Are fanservice-y characters (i.e. Lara Croft, Tifa Lockhart) immediately bad?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

In the TV show Supernatural, why is God portrayed as cruel?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If sea levels were rising, wouldn't the acreage of coastal salt marshes increase? Are they?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What qualities do single women typically look for in a man? Is it a common preference for women to want a man who earns more than they do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Are you afraid of being alone?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do not set goals—set systems.